So I am doing my best to remember that even though someone doesn't "love" me of "like" me right now I am still lovable and still likable.
And there is this little matter of not being able to fix someone's problem. Damn this frustrates me. I'm a coach. I know how to coach people into figuring things out for themselves and I'm really good at it. This time I just can't get out of my own head, my own emotional attachment and so I've been trying to solve the problem. It's not working and if anything, things are deteriorating rapidly. She's discouraged. I'm frustrated.
So I'm doing my best to be with my humanness and my need to let go of being attached to an outcome.
Whew. "Life is ...", as Helen Keller said "either a daring adventure or nothing."